I'm just not sure about the look but it does look good in white - not sure about the blue colour a lot of people choose - I just think (and maybe it's because I've never had a Gti) that it looks like it's sporting some after-market kit, that the Gti is more the genuine article, that the R, from a distance, could be an 'ordinary' Golf - all that said, chances are that if I'd had a Gti Mark V, I'd have gone for the R (if I could have got my head around spending £35K on a Golf....which is doubtful). Anyway, you enjoy it, that's all that matters....