Casabian
My car was ordered mid August too and similar to you i was quoted end nov delivery, my dealer has been a nightmare to deal with and the two dealer staff i have delt with so far seem to not understand the simplest question, or request i have asked of them!

They have slowly drove me insane

I sent a letter to VW customer service about the delay August orders are all suffering, I got a phone call in December from VWcs to say they recieved the letter and that someone would contact me by phone in 2 to 3 working days, thats 9 working days ago now

I simple have lost the will