I always thought the 3 door looked sportier but my 5 door has really grown on me. I went for 5 as we have a new baby but ,my 10 and 8 year old didn't have any problems getting in and out of the back of my Scirocco but I found getting in and out of it a pain with the long doors and lower roofline and big seat bolsters. Golf much better than Scirocco in every regard and 5 much better than 3 (for me).