sorry TBH it has an OBD port for a reason.
these engines are complex creatures and speculating about faults from symptoms even when its infount of you can lead to expensive and pointless wild goose chases. really any diagnosis over a forum is odds on going to be a load of bollox.
i would suggest ether getting your self a copy vagcom and a lead from rosstec, or a pikey one off ebay. that should point out the issue more presisely but it sounds as if its turbo / boost controll related