I can see the arguments for and against leasing.
As for the looking out of the window and owning the car point.. Its yours as you are the registered keeper. It wont be taken off you.. its yours!!! And you can take consolation in the fact that when they do come and take it away... there will be a nice new shiney car stood there as your next lease car

For me the figures stack up, and if thats the case then its a no brainer. I certainly dont have 20-25k to blow straight on a car, although understand that some of you do. But why would you want to put 20k of your own money into a depreciating asset?? Surely 20k put elsewhere at a time like this would yield a much better return. In fact I would be confident enough to know I could turn 20k in to £28k over 2 yrs and hope that it would pay for itself (but thats me).
The reason that many people rule out leasing is that they dont fully understand the concept (no offence). Lets say you want a car but dont have alot of money to put down for whatever reason, but are confident of making a regular payment. When you go out and buy a car from the dealership be it with finance from them or the bank, you are paying back the total amount of the loan + interest on that amount.
However.. when you lease the car you are simply paying for the amount the car will depreciate + interest on that amount. The depreciation amount being much lower than had you gone down the finance route. The depreciation is calculated by the leasing company and hence the mileage set from the off, although this can be changed.
I run a business too so as you can understand it also has a few small but reasonable benifits. BUT the main reason for leasing, and this really is the main reason.. is that having a set budget for your car is a definate bonus. You know exactly what you pay each month, and dont have to worry about residuals/new models/known faults developing.
I have listed a few more advantages below

1. You can drive it like you stole it (from cold) Which I do!!

2. Road tax paid for
3. Free VW roadside assistance
4. Totally hassel free motoring (if anything goes wrong, its under warrenty)
5. They do allow for small damage depending on the mileage (VW do anyway) e.g dents upto 25mm diameter, stone chips on bonnet
6. If you take it back to the garage that owns it, they do like to take extra care of it (it is going to go back to them eventually).
7. You get a brand new car every 2yrs, depending on how long your lease is or how often you want a new one.
8. The beeeatches love it!!

Its not for everyone.. but its an option. I certainly wouldnt have even looked at the R32 before I found that deal. Was actually looking at the GTi and the dealership quoted me a price of just under £500. Went on the net and found one for about £350 without any extras. Then I was pointed to the R32 and the rest is history.