The title is '8v GTI stalling' if you cant find it! 
Found it! I phoned the local VW Stealership to see how much they charge to run engine diagnostic checks and they charge an hour's labour for it = ?72. Then I phoned some other guy who's not even really local and he's coming to my house on Saturday to run diagnostic checks and only charges ?35!!
I've been reading a lot and it could be any number of things - throttle body, MAF sensor, vacuum leak, distribution cap, alien force field . . . I'd rather fork out ?35 to get the error codes read than send it to a garage and have them spend 3 hours just trying to figure out what it is. My last 3 experiences with garages have been mind-altering! I never trust mechanics to give me a straight answer and fix only what is necessary.

I think that's a real shame.
I'll let you know what he finds in the diagnostic checks. Meanwhile, if anybody else has had this problem and fixed it, or has suggestions then please post them. It seems this is a common problem and it would be nice if we could narrow down the possible causes!
Thanks.