Update:
I´ve tried bleeding the cooling system again (in the dark) and sure enough, quite a bit of air came out of the header tank and nearly no crud surfaced (good sign.. I think) on the water-coolant mixture. All the hoses warmed up well except the lower one (engine oil temp at 116 degrees according to MFA) and engine coolant temp didn´t reach half way.
1. Radiator fan doesn´t turn on
2. No fluid comes through the overflow pipe
3. Bottom radiator hose still cold - Thermostat has probably gone kaput
4. Heating still doesn´t work (it has always worked until the oil/crap in header tank scenario).
So, in conclusion tomorrow I´ll be visiting the VW service centre and buying a new thermostat, water pump impeller (do I need to buy the whole pump?), new header tank and cap, push on the oil cooler order if it hasnt arrived yet.
I´ll try find a weekend when I can remove radiator and whole cooling system hoses etc, water pump, oil cooler and then methodically put the new parts in and put the system together.
Just as well I´m buying another second hand car (Range Rover.. yes I know it may look like I´m asking for trouble) as the GTI may be out of action for a few weeks and I need reliable transport to get my kid to school etc.
Thank you everyone for all your help. I´ll bump the thread back once I´ve replaced all the possible bits that could have gone wrong.
Regards,
NuTTs