Cheers, the first 1 came off a treat, but the rest are driving me crazy

I want to take the head off, suspect blown head gasket, so decided to leave manifold on till i get head off, but now struggling with the 2 exhaust clampy things. Every time i get it close one more tug and they pop back into recess
If i break or cut the manifold bolts are they readily available to replace?
Do you also know what comes in a full gasket set?
Also is it worth getting head skimmed and if so do i have to strip head of vavles etc