My golf also does this on startup and if i remember rightly its actually trying to warm the engine slightly before use, if you let it idle for a while after a minute or so the revs will drop down to 800-1000. Im sure i was told not all golf do this though.
As for 2 and 3 you could have a bush that needs replacing or something but hard to say with such little information, need to get under the front end and have a look. Check your cv boots as they may have split and lost all the grease.
Miles