Update wow how time flys.
How to turn off the DRL when you have front xenons+rear lights+number plate lights as DRL's Drum roll

The DRL are now off.
You need vagcom or VCDS or similar
Central electric---coding---> long code helper
Byte 11 (Prob shown as hex 88) select it
A box below will come up
A tick box next to
'Daytime running lights via low beam' will be ticked. Untick it. click back, click 'do it'.
Your DRL (front xenons+rear lights+number plate lights) will now go out.
