No need for the ECU, just found the cause. Where fuse 14 and 15 should be, there's just a melted hole. Fuse 10 was also melted and blown which was the cause for it not starting. I feel a bit stupid now, but I didn't realise any of the in-car fuses could make the car not run, I thought the important ones were under the bonnet by the battery.
Run's fine now but I have an airbag fault, checked the leads under the seats and they're connected. What's weird is the central locking and interior lights still work even though there is no fuse for 14 or 15

Anyway, sorry for wasting your time....should have really checked that out first :embarassed:. Will spend the money I was going to spend on an ECU on gettng the Airbag fault fixed. Thanks!!!