Before you do any complaining, you need to take 2 critical measurements! open the bonnet, check the area where the front panel (slam Panel) meets the wings, you should see the heads of 2x 10mm self tapping bolts on both sides of the car, these bolts hold the front panel, and the wings, to the inner wings, now notice between each of these 2 pairs of bolts is a hole that appears to do nothing, this is a 12mm body alignment data hole, and is the key to setting up the correct front end alignment
Here's what to do, you now have to measure diagonal alignment, with the bonnet up, find the rearmost, wing fixing bolt on the O/S of the vehicle, should be the bolt closest to the bonnet hinge, get someone to hold the end of the tape measure exactly in the CENTER of the bolt head, and not to move it! take the tape across to the N/S alignment hole, and measure to DEAD CENTER, It should read bang on 155cm In both directions! VW give you +-3mm to play with here, any more than that, then you have problems! measure up, and let me know what you have, and I'll try and point you in the right direction
By the way, Jetta wings ARE different to Golf wings!, although they are the same part No, Jetta wings were tweaked on the production line for a closer fit around the grill

Tom