Look, just because its your thread doesn't mean you can expect an answer to your question, people hijack and their questions get answered not yours. Its the way things work

I suggest you find another unrelated thread and ask your question there!

But because I'm feeling generous I'll try to help just this once, there's this guy in the states who sells uprated shifter parts. He has a few piccies of various shift rods, mabie you can identify the part thats bent on yours?
http://www.4crawler.com/Diesel/ForSale/ShiftLinkage.shtml