do you know the rating of the original fuse that blew? 10A? What might have happened is that after you put the 25Amp fuse in, and tried the boot, there might be something wrong with the boot solenoid that caused the fuse to blow in the first place. With the new higher rated fuse in, it'll draw current until something else blows, in your case it could be that the wiring for the boot solenoid has fried itself at some point.
Since you've got a multimeter, try and do a continuity check for the power lines running from the cig. lighter to the solenoid. (measure the resistance, should be <1ohm, if broken it'll read >>10Mohm for open circuit.)