It's not so much the wait. I expect that. It's the way my salesman never answers his phone, never returns calls when he says he will, keeps me on hold for weeks until I have to ring him back up. Im still waiting for him to get back to me on this tech pack addition which I asked him about 3 weeks ago!
They charged me twice the agreed deposit and put me in overdraft as I was not expecting that amount of money to be taken out my account.
They haven't sent me my new contract with the agreed deposit (upon collection).
The list goes on and on...
Argh!
That's really bad service. I have great sympathy for you, it must be incredibly frustrating

I know we knock dealers and often deservedly so. But I have to say, so far my salesman has been very good, much better than I expected, and this is a broker dealer, the main southern DTD dealership, so pretty busy no doubt. And I have not yet met him in the flesh.
By contrast to you, I was given my unconfirmed build week and tracker number the day after placing the order by phone. Paperwork was emailed through promptly and when I phoned him about the tech pack he was busy but phoned me back within a couple of hours. I then got a full email response within a couple of days. Since then there's been a few emails back and forth and never much delay in getting a reply. The answers from VWUK may not have been the best, but I cannot fault the dealer himself. As I've said before, he was recommended to me by Steven (p3asa) on here, and I'm very grateful to him for it. So have to give credit where credit is due. No help to you Mr Savage but there are some decent ones out there.
I really hope things improve for you but if you're not getting any joy then maybe looking elsewhere is the right thing to do for you.