To be honest, never before have i washed my car any other way than with a car garage jet wash

Read about it on here and then decided, was time to change my ways, after having my first dark car and noticing alot of swirls.
I have bought Dodo-born to be mild, some blue car polish, AG SRP, (and wash mitt, foam applicators, microfibre cloths) and now deciding on wax.
Should i buy carnuaba wax, like dodo purple haze, have heard many a good story about this or should i try one of the liquid waxes?
Have heard that the liquid ones last longer, but i suppose the carnuaba ones produce a higher gloss?
Should i be putting something like lime prime lite somewhere in between?
Please explain, all very new to this and want to
try and get this right before wasting hours!