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Title: Single life
Post by: scarr89 on 06 April 2012, 17:27
I am now single for the first time in 3+ years, I pretty much have forgotten what I did before a girl friend...Got any sympathy going spare anyone  :lipsrsealed:

f**king gutted & so bored...I took a week off especially to spend time with her and she left me, and now I have nothing to do... :sad:

There is one posotive that has come about...Hybrid turbo WILL get bought sooner rather than later and I can get a decent SMF clutch kit  :cool:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: bobbarley on 06 April 2012, 17:28
Sorry to hear that mate, always hurts.  I've not been properly single for about 7 years, don't remember what it feels like either.  I've always had another lined up  :grin:

Time for some pizza, beers and a hooker!
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: Steve_PD on 06 April 2012, 17:43
Single FTW :cool:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: barrym381 on 06 April 2012, 17:44
sorry to here that but most of them are snakes with tits  :grin: :grin:
get yourself that new turbo an you will soon forget about her if thats what u want
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: daz veedub on 06 April 2012, 17:45
let me know what its like













i might try it myself  :cool:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: golf-sib on 06 April 2012, 17:49
Sorry to hear that mate, always hurts.  I've not been properly single for about 7 years, don't remember what it feels like either.  I've always had another lined up  :grin:

Time for some mates, pizza, beers and a hookah!

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Title: Re: Single life
Post by: stfc_gti on 06 April 2012, 17:57
ps3, snacks, booze, porn.
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: daz veedub on 06 April 2012, 17:58
ps3, snacks, booze, porn.

wrong order  :wink:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: barrym381 on 06 April 2012, 18:03
ps3, snacks, booze, porn.

wrong order  :wink:
yeah you would just have booze an porn daz  :grin: :grin:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: navmk4gti on 06 April 2012, 18:19
leson to learn always have a back up  :grin:

go out and partyyyy with the lads you will forget her during the night when your head is in some blondes t!ts  :smiley:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: daz veedub on 06 April 2012, 18:20
ps3, snacks, booze, porn.

wrong order  :wink:
yeah you would just have booze an porn daz  :grin: :grin:

 :cool:  :laugh: :laugh:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: Shady Pioneer on 06 April 2012, 18:23
I don't remember what single life is like having been in relationships pretty much for the last 5 years, don't really think I miss it other than not getting moaned at. :grin:

Just enjoy yourself mate, go and party and get in it like Sonic on a car bonnet. :cool:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: shelaghmk3gti on 06 April 2012, 18:29
you must be feeling kinda numb..lost,
maybe shes made a mistake and you are the man of her dreams, only time will tell, but lifes too short honest!
lots of man opionions on here.. so i guess thats what my ex did when we split.. cnut! LOL
honest.. hold it together, try and talk and see where it went wrong.. its not going to be painfree whichever way it goes.
wishing you all  the best babe, hope it goes in whichever direction you hope xx
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: daz veedub on 06 April 2012, 18:34
your single.....he,s single  :undecided: :undecided: :undecided: :smiley:







get in contact  :cool:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: MK3GTI_16Valve on 06 April 2012, 18:42
Do what u want when u want to
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: shelaghmk3gti on 06 April 2012, 18:47
your single.....he,s single  :undecided: :undecided: :undecided: :smiley:







get in contact  :cool:

dear john, lets do it! haha
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: cняis on 06 April 2012, 18:47
Who the hell is going to cook your dinner?  :shocked:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: shelaghmk3gti on 06 April 2012, 18:48
Who the hell is going to cook your dinner?  :shocked:


oh my dayzzzzzzz the guys gutted hes obviously having take away!
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: daz veedub on 06 April 2012, 18:49
Who the hell is going to cook your dinner?  :shocked:


oh my dayzzzzzzz the guys gutted hes obviously having take away!

and getting trashed  :smiley:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: shelaghmk3gti on 06 April 2012, 18:52
never understood that part.. ( getting pished) but saying that im on the last glass of a bottle of wine as im 40 tomorrow!! totally hacked off.. all i have to show is a noisy gearbox.. hahaha that sounds sooo wrong
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: barrym381 on 06 April 2012, 18:53
never understood that part.. ( getting pished) but saying that im on the last glass of a bottle of wine as im 40 tomorrow!! totally hacked off.. all i have to show is a noisy gearbox.. hahaha that sounds sooo wrong
:grin: :grin: :grin: cheer up the say life starts at 40 or is that just old c**ts that say that  :grin:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: JC on 06 April 2012, 19:01
never understood that part.. ( getting pished) but saying that im on the last glass of a bottle of wine as im 40 tomorrow!! totally hacked off.. all i have to show is a noisy gearbox.. hahaha that sounds sooo wrong
:grin: :grin: :grin: cheer up the say life starts at 40 or is that just old c**ts that say that  :grin:

no, just c**nts

 :smiley:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: shelaghmk3gti on 06 April 2012, 19:02
yeah its the old people that say that! tho there are a fair few on this site i notice lol..9 self satisfaction in that statement somewhere )


god bless u weeny one
.. youll be fecking 40 one day :lol:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: shelaghmk3gti on 06 April 2012, 19:03
never understood that part.. ( getting pished) but saying that im on the last glass of a bottle of wine as im 40 tomorrow!! totally hacked off.. all i have to show is a noisy gearbox.. hahaha that sounds sooo wrong
:grin: :grin: :grin: cheer up the say life starts at 40 or is that just old c**ts that say that  :grin:

no, just c**nts

 :smiley:

lmao.. i do like the way chuff says it with a straight face
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: shelaghmk3gti on 06 April 2012, 19:04
back to the subject in hand..........................................
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: Steve_PD on 06 April 2012, 19:07
your single.....he,s single  :undecided: :undecided: :undecided: :smiley:







get in contact  :cool:

dear john, lets do it! haha

back to the subject in hand..........................................

wow that was quick :grin:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: shelaghmk3gti on 06 April 2012, 19:08
keep sniffing it henry.. its all downhill from here lmao
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: barrym381 on 06 April 2012, 19:14
yeah its the old people that say that! tho there are a fair few on this site i notice lol..9 self satisfaction in that statement somewhere )


god bless u weeny one
.. youll be fecking 40 one day :lol:
i cant wait till im 40 save me ferryin 1 of the kids about every time he is going out  :wink:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: shelaghmk3gti on 06 April 2012, 19:15
yeah its the old people that say that! tho there are a fair few on this site i notice lol..9 self satisfaction in that statement somewhere )


god bless u weeny one
.. youll be fecking 40 one day :lol:
i cant wait till im 40 save me ferryin 1 of the kids about every time he is going out  :wink:


i said that............................it never ever ever ends lol
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: barrym381 on 06 April 2012, 19:17
yeah its the old people that say that! tho there are a fair few on this site i notice lol..9 self satisfaction in that statement somewhere )


god bless u weeny one
.. youll be fecking 40 one day :lol:
i cant wait till im 40 save me ferryin 1 of the kids about every time he is going out  :wink:


i said that............................it never ever ever ends lol
yeah i know got another 14years of it with the younger 1  :smiley:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: JC on 06 April 2012, 19:19
your single.....he,s single  :undecided: :undecided: :undecided: :smiley:







get in contact  :cool:

dear john, lets do it! haha

back to the subject in hand..........................................

wow that was quick :grin:

its an age thing steve  :smiley:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: shelaghmk3gti on 06 April 2012, 19:21
at the end of the day we get them home safe after a good night... we never moan and rarely get a thanks.. but its all good :)

and i hope the pizza is hitting the spot OP xxxx
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: shelaghmk3gti on 06 April 2012, 19:23
your single.....he,s single  :undecided: :undecided: :undecided: :smiley:










get in contact  :cool:

dear john, lets do it! haha

back to the subject in hand..........................................

wow that was quick :grin:

its an age thing steve  :smiley:





pfft!! ill give u age!!
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: shelaghmk3gti on 06 April 2012, 19:34
RIGHT.. i had enuff.. just got told by my sons to get rid of the golf and get a decent ford.....
the one dream i had..mate i hope your breakup goes smoother than this will go xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: Gavv8 on 06 April 2012, 19:57
RIGHT.. i had enuff.. just got told by my sons to get rid of the golf and get a decent ford.....
the one dream i had..mate i hope your breakup goes smoother than this will go xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
For god sakes don't buy a ford, fixing a sick gearbox is easy compared to endless welding...
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: scarr89 on 06 April 2012, 20:01
I am going blonde titty hunting in Southampton Sunday night, Portsmouth has only given me a day long hangover!

Oh, and as for the meals I'm at home with the rents for the week, cannot beat home cooking!

Hunting sl*ts down at the festivals this is now a go  :lipsrsealed:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: shelaghmk3gti on 06 April 2012, 20:06
RIGHT.. i had enuff.. just got told by my sons to get rid of the golf and get a decent ford.....
the one dream i had..mate i hope your breakup goes smoother than this will go xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
For god sakes don't buy a ford, fixing a sick gearbox is easy compared to endless welding...
this made me smile
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: shelaghmk3gti on 06 April 2012, 20:08
I am going blonde titty hunting in Southampton Sunday night, Portsmouth has only given me a day long hangover!

Oh, and as for the meals I'm at home with the rents for the week, cannot beat home cooking!

Hunting very *friendly* persons down at the festivals this is now a go  :lipsrsealed:

awww babe pull sum xxxxx
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: Jay on 06 April 2012, 21:23
Single life, what the f@@k is that?  :huh:

Is that where I went out and got pissed every weekend?
Is is when I never had constant moaning?
Is that when I had more money than sense?


Oh well, got my four girls now  :cool:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: scarr89 on 06 April 2012, 21:33
Single life, what the f@@k is that?  :huh:

Is that where I went out and got pissed every weekend?
Is is when I never had constant moaning?
Is that when I had more money than sense?


Oh well, got my four girls now  :cool:

I am waiting for my big pay rise in 12months time...then I will have more money then sense! :laugh:

Are you talking about 4 daugthers or 4 cars :lipsrsealed:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: JC on 06 April 2012, 21:40
Single life, what the f@@k is that?  :huh:

Is that where I went out and got pissed every weekend?
Is is when I never had constant moaning?
Is that when I had more money than sense?


Oh well, got my four girls now  :cool:

I am waiting for my big pay rise in 12months time...then I will have more money then sense! :laugh:


Are you talking about 4 daugthers or 4 cars :lipsrsealed:

so you havent been told about the increase in other things which will use up most of that then  :lipsrsealed:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: scarr89 on 06 April 2012, 21:45
Dare I say I feel I will be in a good place in a years time with the 'company' paying for most of my rises in living  :lipsrsealed:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: Jay on 06 April 2012, 23:27
3 daughters, 1 wife  :grin:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: Guy on 06 April 2012, 23:37
Fcuks sake.. What is this forum today? Have I clicked on a dear Deirdre link instead?!

Have none of you actually gone out to enjoy the outdoors or gone and tinkered with your cars? :huh:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: Gavv8 on 06 April 2012, 23:59
3 daughters, 1 wife  :grin:
Try 4 daughters..1 wife... :tongue:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: cullygti on 07 April 2012, 00:30
oh eck  :laugh: 3 sons 1 daughter and a wife and  a golf  :grin:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: JC on 07 April 2012, 07:40
3 daughters, 1 wife  :grin:
Try 4 daughters..1 wife... :tongue:

Poor effort

Try 4 daughters, a son, a wife and an Ex wife  :smug:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: shaft69 on 07 April 2012, 07:55
Son, daughter, wife, fit b!tch in the side, golf and BMW.
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: JC on 07 April 2012, 08:01
Fcuks sake.. What is this forum today? Have I clicked on a dear Deirdre link instead?!

Have none of you actually gone out to enjoy the outdoors or gone and tinkered with your cars? :huh:


 :laugh:  better threads than this  :lipsrsealed:  ya grumpy fcuker
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: Gavv8 on 07 April 2012, 08:16
Son, daughter, wife, fit b!tch in the side, golf and BMW.
That'll be the beemer driving side of your personality... :grin:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: justalex81 on 07 April 2012, 10:02
Son, daughter, wife, fit b!tch in the side, golf and BMW.
That'll be the beemer driving side of your personality... :grin:

you mean the cvnty side?  :lipsrsealed:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: Guy on 07 April 2012, 10:18
Fcuks sake.. What is this forum today? Have I clicked on a dear Deirdre link instead?!

Have none of you actually gone out to enjoy the outdoors or gone and tinkered with your cars? :huh:


 :laugh:  better threads than this  :lipsrsealed:  ya grumpy fcuker

I know, I read em then got to the end of a rather short tether with this one

Nothing like a bit of positivity to brighten things up a bit is there? :grin:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: scarr89 on 07 April 2012, 11:46
Fcuks sake.. What is this forum today? Have I clicked on a dear Deirdre link instead?!

Have none of you actually gone out to enjoy the outdoors or gone and tinkered with your cars? :huh:


 :laugh:  better threads than this  :lipsrsealed:  ya grumpy fcuker

I know, I read em then got to the end of a rather short tether with this one

Nothing like a bit of positivity to brighten things up a bit is there? :grin:

C'mon Guy, all I wanted was a tiny bit of sympathy :cry:...I'm always in the detailing section and love using sponges to wash cars with too you know!
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: bob23 on 07 April 2012, 12:15
Well I have sympathy for you, Just don't be an idiot! Don't get upset/angry if you see her out with another bloke, don't try to make her jealous by getting another woman and flaunting her in front of your ex and don't go out getting pissed every night, as when your finished the problem will still be there and you'll still feel like sh!t, you'll just have a lot less money and a hangover.

Most women just aren't worth the trouble, (no offence to anyone on here) if your feeling upset about losing her and are just thinking about all the good times you had together... Stop it!!!

Think about all the positives, no more moaning, no more arguing, you'll have a lot more money in your pocket, you can concentrate on the things you want to do and have time to do them.

Yes it'll still hurt for a bit, but it's not like you'll be alone forever, you will find someone else and then you'll be wishing you were single again. :grin:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: Guy on 07 April 2012, 12:17
Sorry mate.. Was a little terse..

Just think this forum could do with a tad more positivity sometimes..

Actually think you're better off single, your money is all yours, your ears don't start to hurt everytime you try to do something you want to do, cars can happily be a priority, so can sport..

Plus you can clean your car more.. Win!
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: Jimble on 07 April 2012, 12:29
Bloody hell! Reading some of these replies makes me wonder what kind of relationships you have had? "you'll have more money" "you can do the things you want to do" WTF? Man up ffs! Anyone would think your wipped, i'd hate to be single again, if you have your own home how will you have more money when you don't have someone to share it with? How will you have more time when you've got to do everything she used to share with you? :huh: and of course there's the obvious stuff that comes with girlfriends and wives! :drool: unless your a proper fookin Romeo most nights you'll end up playin with yourself in front of youporn! Although you can still do that....... :embarassed:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: JC on 07 April 2012, 14:44
Sorry mate.. Was a little terse..

Just think this forum could do with a tad more positivity sometimes..

Actually think you're better off single, your money is all yours, your ears don't start to hurt everytime you try to do something you want to do, cars can happily be a priority, so can sport..

Plus you can clean your car more.. Win!


So your positively negative about relationships then  :laugh: :grin:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: Dave_IOW on 07 April 2012, 15:04
Stick to being single mate, I never really been single since 18 (now 26) always had the next one lined up and given the old one the flick..

However, last 3 months been single and been great, get yourself out on the weekends and find 'randoms'..

If you can find a regular random for a Wednesday night, it breaks the week up abit!

No strings, all the benefits!

All the good things from single life, and the most enjoyable bit from a relationship with added variety  :wink:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: shelaghmk3gti on 07 April 2012, 16:22
Stick to being single mate, I never really been single since 18 (now 26) always had the next one lined up and given the old one the flick..

However, last 3 months been single and been great, get yourself out on the weekends and find 'randoms'..

If you can find a regular random for a Wednesday night, it breaks the week up abit!

No strings, all the benefits!

All the good things from single life, and the most enjoyable bit from a relationship with added variety  :wink:


funniest thing i have ever read  :grin: :grin:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: clipperjay on 07 April 2012, 16:48
Sorry mate.. Was a little terse..

Just think this forum could do with a tad more positivity sometimes..

Actually think you're better off single, your money is all yours, your ears don't start to hurt everytime you try to do something you want to do, cars can happily be a priority, so can sport..

Plus you can clean your car more.. Win!

Haaa guy I've got so many single female friends who say blokes aren't blokes anymore they can't comunicate and are always saving money! I always thought most of them are fussy mares but to be honest alot of blokes arent interested in a steady misses due to having no money or being scared to spend it on a good women.
As for cleaning the cars I gave up can't be arsed to spend over four hours detailing then neighbours do building work or it starts to piss down again  :lipsrsealed:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: mcgee9t2 on 07 April 2012, 18:15
Being in a relationship is good.  But being single id good too.

Im on a lads weekend (just got outa the car to the next hotel) two days at the nurburgring and now off for a few beers a night out and some sl*t hunting.

Beats the romantic weekend me and the ex were planning. beer steak and motors  :smiley:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: Gavv8 on 07 April 2012, 18:52
Stick to being single mate, I never really been single since 18 (now 26) always had the next one lined up and given the old one the flick..

However, last 3 months been single and been great, get yourself out on the weekends and find 'randoms'..

If you can find a regular random for a Wednesday night, it breaks the week up abit!

No strings, all the benefits!

All the good things from single life, and the most enjoyable bit from a relationship with added variety  :wink:
^^ A design for life.. :laugh:
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: scarr89 on 07 April 2012, 19:54
Love the Wednesday bit...I'll do my best.  :laugh:

Cod will definitely become a bigger part of my life than it already is, along with car cleaning and car tinkering. I can focus more on sport & LADS HOLIDAYS!!!!

Yes there are perks, but also cons, like having planned a week off to see her and now it is wasted...ragggging!

Cheers for the help guys, you lot are so sensitive and kind  :kiss:



Title: Re: Single life
Post by: Jay on 07 April 2012, 21:40
3 daughters, 1 wife  :grin:
Try 4 daughters..1 wife... :tongue:

Poor effort

Try 4 daughters, a son, a wife and an Ex wife  :smug:

f#ck that, 3 daughters and a wife is enough. They may drive me nuts but I still love them.
Title: Re: Single life
Post by: bob23 on 08 April 2012, 03:10
Bloody hell! Reading some of these replies makes me wonder what kind of relationships you have had? "you'll have more money" "you can do the things you want to do" WTF? Man up ffs! Anyone would think your wipped, i'd hate to be single again, if you have your own home how will you have more money when you don't have someone to share it with? How will you have more time when you've got to do everything she used to share with you? :huh: and of course there's the obvious stuff that comes with girlfriends and wives! :drool: unless your a proper fookin Romeo most nights you'll end up playin with yourself in front of youporn! Although you can still do that....... :embarassed:

I rent a room in a house full of lodgers so my living cost is the same if I am single or not, my girlfriend never done any of my cooking or cleaning, so I don't have to spend any more time doing housework being single either.

Although my ex worked, she only earned enough to pay her rent, travel and bills, so if we went out anywhere I always had to pay for everything, if I went out to see my mates, I would be given earache about it, as "I never spent any time with her" (5/6 days a week wasn't enough, I never used to let it stop me seeing my mates though) in the last 3 months of being with my ex I got "the obvious stuff that comes with girlfriends and wives!" twice.

Since being single I have started to pay off my credit cards, have ordered a load of parts for my golf, so I can start getting it ready for the road, have booked a weekend off work to go camping at truckfest with my mates, have been laid on average twice a week and if nothing goes wrong in the next couple of months, me and my mates will be going to the nurburgring later in the year.

So for me I'd say being single is the better option, I'd like to find a nice girl, have a decent relationship and move in together, one that doesn't spread her legs the first time I take her out, that isn't a headf**k and doesn't have a boyfriend that she cheats on, but I wouldn't even know where to find a girl like that, let alone be able to convince her to go out with someone like me, so single I shall be!