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Title: Emotional moment today . . . .
Post by: JC on 27 March 2012, 19:25
Had to go and collect a car today from an old gent, nothing special, a Vectra Sri 04 plate.

He had been forced to give up driving, first time in 67 years he would be without a car.

63 years since his last accident.

A very sad experience, the bloke was in bits, losing his freedom, he stood watching as I drove it away, felt like I was at a funeral if honest.

can see why his family asked us to do it,  :cry:
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Post by: bobbarley on 27 March 2012, 19:27
Poor bloke, seem weird.  I agree with the elderly being tested or something a bit more when they get older.  you know,  make sure they'll still up to driving, after all it does require a lot of attention and is stressful.  As long as they do well, don't see any problem with them staying behind the wheel.
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Post by: Gavv8 on 27 March 2012, 19:31
We took the keys off my grandad last year at 84, he had a little honda jazz with 16000 miles on it and on its 4th clutch, to be fair he wasnt that bad but we could see him making stupid mistakes and didn't want to see him or an innocent party put in harms way, he hasn't been quite the same since. :sad:
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Post by: Jay on 27 March 2012, 20:16
Look on the bright side, he's probably been driving longer than most of us ever will  :cool: :grin: The One Show had a 100 year old lady that still drives, on their show tonight :shocked: She used to drive her fathers Morris "Bullnose" 'back in the day', she now drives a Seicento :grin:
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Post by: mcgee9t2 on 27 March 2012, 20:40
sad times indeed,  its like taking away someones freedom.

cant really comment on how he was driving, he could have been a brilliant driver or he could have been like the tit that was a few cars infront of me today, drove 14 miles along a A road at 50mph, was fine for the first few miles as thats a 50 zone, then it changes up to a 70 zone which he still does 50 through for about 12 miles in the fast lane, i know its a limit not a target but surely he must have looked in the rear veiw mirror and noticed there was a que of trafic as far as the eyes could see behind him.
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Post by: Mr GTD on 27 March 2012, 20:46
We took the keys off my grandad last year at 84, he had a little honda jazz with 16000 miles on it and on its 4th clutch, to be fair he wasnt that bad but we could see him making stupid mistakes and didn't want to see him or an innocent party put in harms way, he hasn't been quite the same since. :sad:

Yep did the same, shocking some of driving he did tho and needed to be done...

Bless him!!

RIP grandad!
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Post by: Thom89 on 27 March 2012, 20:57
I see lots of it Chuff, my workplace is surrounded by housing estates that were built in the late 50s, the young people that moved in then, are still here, and of course getting on in years now, I have many customers that really should not be on the road! but luckily, they really only seem to have regular car park bumps, or hitting something on their own driveways... the list is endless
We have elderly people that bring their cars in, and pretty much just hand over the keys, and ask us to sell the cars for them, most are relieved that they no longer have the responsibility any longer.
Strange how many pass away shortly after :sad:

Thom
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Post by: JC on 27 March 2012, 21:00
aye, we have a VERY old customer base, I collect cars from people who have trouble standing up to sign the paperwork yet still drive.  :shocked:

we have 4 cars on site at the moment that we are selling on, but this was the first I had to go collect myself.  :cry: was even tempted to get it for our lass, its been a pampered car, but she hates red  :rolleyes:

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Post by: Bellend on 27 March 2012, 21:04
I see lots of it Chuff, my workplace is surrounded by housing estates that were built in the late 50s, the young people that moved in then, are still here, and of course getting on in years now, I have many customers that really should not be on the road! but luckily, they really only seem to have regular car park bumps, or hitting something on their own driveways... the list is endless
We have elderly people that bring their cars in, and pretty much just hand over the keys, and ask us to sell the cars for them, most are relieved that they no longer have the responsibility any longer.
Strange how many pass away shortly after :sad:

Thom

Yes, tis a shame. Do you find the older ones are far better customers/payers though?
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Post by: MrBounce on 27 March 2012, 22:10
Have seen 2 scary incidents where the drivers must have 80+ - one in a petrol station where the guy had such terrible eyesight he couldn't see the notes properly to pay with, then got in his car and drove off!! The other was an old dear in a Micra who drove down a quiet road and knocked the mirrors off every parked car as well as her own and didn't notice. :shocked:
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Post by: R32UK on 27 March 2012, 22:53
very sad... but probably for the best.  :undecided:
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Post by: jv on 27 March 2012, 23:59
Must not comment about average Vauxhall customer base.

My grandad, rip, used to drive an Astra (no way, what a coincidence!).... anyway, he was coming towards the end of his driving career when I was first starting mine. I did the classic, driving like a teenage tw@, friends doing the same, yet still, it was when the old guy was driving me that I would be all over the virtual brake.

Must be terrible to slowly lose your reaction/vision/bladder etc but it's coming for us all one day.  :undecided: :sad: :evil: Some sooner than others.

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Post by: JC on 28 March 2012, 07:42
Must not comment about average Vauxhall customer base.


we have a old folks sheltered complex near us

more commonly known as Agila and Meriva World  :grin:
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Post by: RandomJord on 28 March 2012, 07:51
I knew it was time for my nan to give up driving when she hurtled towards me on a main road at 20mph with the full beams, hazards and somehow wipers going all at once. Despite it being a sunny july day!

Also i worry about my Grandad when he has to give up driving, it wont be long because he has a problem with his eyes so he knows he'll have to give it up. Its very strange the getting older thing, The old silver back will eventually just be a little old man. sad times
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Post by: Len on 28 March 2012, 10:12
My Dad, now 95 had to give up driving 3 years ago due to failing eyesight. He still misses the independance driving gave him.

Oh and he started driving at the age of 14. Bread van delivery, his first job.
That means he was driving for 78 years.
Never took a driving test either!
Except in the Army for driving 4x4 lorries.
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Post by: Sam on 28 March 2012, 10:38
town near me, Car went through a wall of a bridge into the kenal.

the story goes he was a pensioner going 80mph in a 30. 2 people in the back got out. he died.

Is that meant to say 'canal' or did he genuinely crash into a load of dogs?
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Post by: haf1zur on 28 March 2012, 10:38
I Dread the day when the car is no longer usable to get to places

Hopefully cars like the ones in i.Robot are out by then

That should solve everything
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Post by: dTEA on 28 March 2012, 18:22
I Dread the day when the car is no longer usable to get to places

Hopefully cars like the ones in i.Robot are out by then

That should solve everything
Until the sat nav and AI fail  :lipsrsealed:
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Post by: Saint Steve on 28 March 2012, 19:01
....Can't be long before your car gets taken then Chuff :evil:
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Post by: Saint Steve on 28 March 2012, 19:02
 :laugh:
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Post by: JC on 28 March 2012, 19:13
or yours if your forgetting you posted so posted again  :tongue:
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Post by: T_J_G on 28 March 2012, 20:32
At least they've had they're driving enthusiasm crushed by a Vauxhall first.

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Post by: Len on 28 March 2012, 20:50
I loved the old Vauxhall Cavaliers!


Had a B reg 1600 4 speed that would do 105 in third! :evil: :grin:
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Post by: RandomJord on 28 March 2012, 21:26
I loved the old Vauxhall Cavaliers!


Had a B reg 1600 4 speed that would do 105 in third! :evil: :grin:

Ah Len.... Billy's asked if we can come collect your fleet as your cracking on a bit  :grin:
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Post by: JC on 28 March 2012, 21:37
I loved the old Vauxhall Cavaliers!


Had a B reg 1600 4 speed that would do 105 in third! :evil: :grin:

Ah Len.... Billy's asked if we can come collect your fleet as your cracking on a bit  :grin:

 :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
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Post by: Bellend on 28 March 2012, 21:57
I loved the old Vauxhall Cavaliers!


Had a B reg 1600 4 speed that would do 105 in third! :evil: :grin:

Ah Len.... Billy's asked if we can come collect your fleet as your cracking on a bit  :grin:

(http://www.maunmotors.co.uk/skiplorryhire/pictures/iveco_skip_lorry_11.jpg)
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Post by: jeynesey on 29 March 2012, 11:09
or yours if your forgetting you posted so posted again  :tongue:

 :grin: :grin:

A few months ago I had a woman run into my shop saying there was some old dear "who had hit a car". Panicked as thought it might be my golf  :lipsrsealed:

I went outside to see she had in some way damaged 7 or 8 cars simply because she failed to park then panicked and kept jolting the car back and forward. Someone had to reach in and turn her car off. Scary. Her sister came to pick her up and she looked even more blind and frail to be driving her home. Sad to see aswel, I'll bet it is really hard when you have to give up that freedom.