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Title: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: Ashmond on 15 January 2009, 17:39
Hey Guys,

After the laughs, grey hairs, loosing my rag, actual tears of joy, sighs of relief, money spent, arguments with my ex, the break up(s), the people I have met and good friends I have made on the way it completely breaks my heart to tell you that I have deceided to break my mk4 after a problem with my bottom end now on my Aum (they are no good for a ko4 honestly).

I have been fighting it since back in August when I got made redundant from my Mortgage firm of 5 years and since then I have been temping here and there not earning even half of what I used to and cannot actually afford after looking at my finances to keep on with the project of my life so far. I am actually really upset to let you guys know that this is my final decision and even though I want to be cannot be swayed. Those of you who have seen my car in the flesh and have met me know how much I love my car and how much effort and stress has gone into it. It was a project with started way before I even had an inkling that my whole industry was going to crash and die and therefore had the money to plough into it and actually acheive my aim of creating a show/cover car from a completely base model mk4 golf, this is one thing that I am truley dissapointed in the most.

But bottom line is due to being let go from another temp job of 4 months, I cannot actually afford to have this car anymore due to the unstablitly of my income now. I will be on the look out for another car to have in the meanwhile while im saving my money so if anybody knows of anything preferably 1.9tdi or 1.6 engine or smaller please let me know (willing to do deal for parts)

My car is being broken over the next month and all parts will be stored in my garage from the ko4 set up to the suspension and smoothed tailgate. I will be putting up a long list of special bits in classifieds over the weekend, as well as the normal bits from the mk4, bonnet, wings, etc.

Thanks again to everybody that have been supportive of my dream and to those of you who have offered help and helped me on the way to realising it almost all the way. Still be dubbing guys so dont worry, may even give Rhyso a bit of satisfaction now by saying if I can get one cheap enough I may even buy a mk4 derv, but it'l be staying standard.

Thanks Again

Ashmond

Your Local Neighbour Nutcase and Dreamer  :cry:
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: AlexB on 15 January 2009, 17:41
Unlucky mate, seems a lot of people are going this way. In a years time you should be sorted out, look forward to seeing your new ride then!  :tongue: chin up lad  :smiley:
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: MaXXeH on 15 January 2009, 17:53
Hi mate, shame to see it go this way, i remeber seeing ur golf when it was in the early days! ( when i vagcomed ur car at the RR) I hope u get it all sorted and can start all over again :)  next time get a AGU that can take the power :P
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: Ashmond on 15 January 2009, 17:56
Yeah I remember, thanks for that dude, I will do, im not even going to think about next time as next project is going to be a flat/house (well thats the plan)
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: jake on 15 January 2009, 18:04
hi ashmond mate really feeling 4 u buddy, i did pm u a few weeks ago if you got it?

I absoloutely love ur golf to pieces it looks mint

how much will you be selling your intercooler for?
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: RnP on 15 January 2009, 18:51
i feel for ya mate, when me and the missus decided to get married my pulsar had to go to help fund it, it was my pride and joy, 450 mad horses, but now 2 years down the line we got a house an evo 8 and a mk4 gti,

stay positive, keep ya chin up and good things will happen, am sure you will be back sooner then you may think with something bigger and better,

RnP
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: golfgtidan on 15 January 2009, 19:02
really really sorry to hear this, i really wanted to see this car in the flesh since joining this forum and seeing pics of it i can only dream of mine being half as nice. fantastic looking machine.

all the best for the future.

 :cry: :cry:
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: bobbarley on 15 January 2009, 19:12
Mate, that is sire news, hurts me to hear it!
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: dai-cymru on 15 January 2009, 19:43
 :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:

thats sad, i can understand how much work you put in as im going through it myself now. shame it let go is it worth just hanging onto it and get a cheap run about till you can sort this one out?
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: vapor matt on 15 January 2009, 19:57
Sorry to hear that, that has been some project, blood sweat and tears. but the need for deep pockets is somthing eveyone here can relate to when you start the moding trail.

hope you get sorted with another motor, and hopefully things on the work front will improve for you soon.

best of luck fella!
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: Pete H on 15 January 2009, 20:12
Price on the KO4 set up!!! lol

soz, real shame to hear it,after all the time you spent on it.
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: Rhyso on 15 January 2009, 20:12
agree with Dai - get a cheap runabout and keep the beast!

gutted otherwise  :cry: :cry:  like losing a member of your family  :sad:
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: bobbarley on 15 January 2009, 20:15
Ash, do you need the money from the mk4, or is it just the running costs?  I agree with Dai and Rhyso, if you can keep it, garage it, SORN it, and keep it  :smiley:
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: player.777 on 15 January 2009, 20:27
mate I never met you, but have read over your thread a number of times.  I can really appreciate from your words how much turmoil you must have gone through to reach this decision. I hope everything works out for you mate - and like the other boys have said, if you can somehow keep it, then you should!
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: richw911 on 15 January 2009, 20:37
Ah really gutted  :cry: As said if needs must im sure you will get something mad later on if you dont keep her  :wink:
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: (shakey) on 15 January 2009, 21:03
ah so srrry to hear this m8 you must b so gutted.

like said all ready put it in the garage and wait till the money gets better for you alot of work has gone into that dont just throw it all away m8 keep her.
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: S7CYW on 15 January 2009, 21:08
Sorry to hear bout your hard times Ash. Keep your head up and it will come good. Just garage your monster and when you're back on your feet can get her right again. Too much has gone in to that car just to end it now!

Good luck mate!
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: Josho on 15 January 2009, 22:11
NO WAY!!!

This was like my faveorite MK4 on here! This reatlly inspired me to do a transplant in my car.

Really sad to see it go.  :cry:
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: T_J_G on 15 January 2009, 22:39
Sorry to hear this Ash, your car has been a real inspiration to me (not just saying that either) hope you'll still come up to Brands with the new motor. I know of a mk3 red TDI going for £500 ish?

Wish you all the best!
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: T_J_G on 15 January 2009, 22:39
Oh and may be interested in a few bits;)
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: Ivor Mk4 Turbo on 15 January 2009, 22:58
Ashmond, really sorry to hear what you've been/gone through, chief. :(

I hope whatever you decide to do works out for you pal. :afro:
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: Matt_Mk4 on 16 January 2009, 08:30
Sorry to hear this dude, but can understand why you have come to your decision.

I have to say, you have created a beautiful car, that anyone would have been proud of!

Chin up mate and hope everything sorts itself soon!
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: ben1.8T on 16 January 2009, 09:00
Sorry to hear that mate. Have sent you a pm feel free to bell me 07935683019 or email me. Have pm'd you  :smiley:
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: the_stink on 16 January 2009, 09:28
 :cry: harsh times indeed mate! if it is an option i agree with Rhyso, Dai and Bonb sorn it be a real shame to let go, know it must of not been easy but understand the situation your in and that it sucks big fat donkey balls!!!!
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: BobbyT on 16 January 2009, 09:35
sorry to hear this, sounds like me and my mk1, you have to let them go when they are costing you everything, at the end of the day its only a car. Good luck, hope your work worries get sorted  :smiley:
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: topher on 16 January 2009, 09:50
Sad times Ash. You should see a tidy wedge for all those parts though
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: AlanD on 16 January 2009, 13:08
Ash, truley gutted for you mate :(

If you ever fancy poping over to Brands one evening let me know, Id be more than happy to pick you up on the way.

Best of luck with it all.

:(
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: RTechUK on 16 January 2009, 19:18
What sad news :sad:, I feel for you mate :cry:  I really do hope things pick up for you m8 and you get back on track,   I dont think you could ever put a price to all your hard work and devotion what has gone in to your 1.4 Golf.


Nick & Ben
R-Tech
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: GUY_GTI on 17 January 2009, 00:17
sorry to hear that you gotta get rid mate, at the end of the day it can be replaced with somethin bigger and better when the funds allow, keep your chin up and i hope it works out for the best in the end  :smiley:
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: Hulmie on 17 January 2009, 20:23
agrred with the others Ash, do feel for you as i have been there myself before. No money will replace the sweat,time or effort put into your car. If you could keep it garaged then get a run around then it may be your best option, as you would be gutted if you started stipping it and then a job does come up.

But anyhow, hope things improve for you fella.
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: K666PDP on 19 January 2009, 06:19
really sad to hear this mate but ive been in excactly the same position and with me it was the best decision i ever made......ive always dumped all my money into my cars and an '88 mk2 XR2 TURBO and £12k later then a 4x4 cosworth and £18k later then a 325 bmw and £8k later then a gto twin turbo and £6k later then a m3 and £20k later then another cossie and finally my evo5 things had to change realising id spent £70k modding + buying/running/servicing my cars seemed stupid but hard to fight so sold my pride and joy evo5 when we were told at my work that overtime wud be drastically reduced car went thing is the overtime didnt drop whatsoever i was abit peeved of but it made me realise theres more to cars in life i bought the golf 1.8 aum turbo have done some moddest mods and left it at that!!! ive more money in my pocket my house is nicely done up and my new girlfriend spends more quality time with me!..........eventho im getting another e46 m3 coupe in 2 years (slight mods only).....what im trying to say mate is if u can keep the car and garage it or if u have to sell it do it but it might be a blessing in disguise etc.......either way cracking car and goodluck with everything n keep smiling dude  :cool:
Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: w0ffle on 19 January 2009, 11:57
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Title: Re: Can No Longer Fight It Guys...Dark Dark Day
Post by: iMation on 19 January 2009, 14:19
Ash bro, this is a sad day.  :cry:

Your car has always been a fav of mine since i got here, seeing it at shows and knowing the amount of work that has gone into it is pure heartache to see it go to waste.

I hope you get things sorted mate and that you dont have to break the beast.

Good luck and hit me up if you need anything

Stu