For a quicky wash I would personally not bother with spray wax, a decent quick detailer will give super results.
Drying.....get a couple of sonus der wonder towels. IMO there is nothing better for shifting water.
Wheels....with any sealer make sure they are dry. I use paper towel, a big box of the stuff from merchants. Also dry the insides.
Wait for the next really warm weekend & do the bizzz.
1, Clay the whole car, a panel at a time with plenty of detailer.
2, Use a good cleaner i.e. Megs Stage 1.
3, Use a cutting product like Sratchx to shift any minor scratchs.
4, Polish, there are loads to try, but AG or Megs Stage 2 are a good reasonable price products to play with.
5, Wax it.
If you really want wacky results without risking damage get your hands on a Megs G220 Dual Action Machine.
These are before & after's on my Phantom Black A4