Get what you want, I just don't see that's a reason to choose one colour over another. When it's dark, you have your lights on, that's what they are for mostly, to make you more obvious to other road users. I'm sure by using statistics you could make a good case for not leaving your house
... sigh... if only we all had good roads to drive on.
Have you never had any near misses where you just didn't see the other car.
Your post above reminded me of this one... When I was leaving the house on the way to work, it was dusk and it was raining. At the end of the drive I looked left and right (into the tree tunnel) then pulled out onto the road. There was a black car with no lights on, right up my bumper! I had just pulled out in front of him because when I looked right I could not see his black car.
Since 2011 all cars have daylight running light. For good reason!
As I said before - a friend has a midnight blue Bora. He has no room on his drive so he parks it on the cul-de-sac. His sister-in-law reversed into it, my brother reversed into it and I didn't see it and nearly reversed into it. It is dam near invisible under street lights.
Our local roads are narrow and there are several 'hidden dips' like the photo below only without the sign, no road marking and narrow. Cars usually drive down the middle of the road and only pull over when/if they see me -