I think its good that you are going for a different aproach linz, after all modifying is about individuality and personal taste; your the one that has to drive it around!
Lets be fair most of the mods done to golfs are now quite common but they work well. The VW scene is all about a subtle smooth understated look, which in my opinion is the best sort of look to choose, less is more.
Good look with the golf tho and I hope it comes out well!