thanks to everyone for their replies. I think i will be sticking with kjet for the moment with my mind on upgrading to megasquirt in the future.
I have done some more research into suspension upgrades and it seems that reviews for kits on the mk2 are few..
I have found some combos that might interest me and i was wondering if anyone can testify to their experience with these. I will be diying these so im giving some rough pricing on each. I wouldnt want to mix and match dampers and springs as im of the opinion that kits by the same manufacturer work better with each other. As i will not be using the car on track i want something that driveable every day and not too harsh but an upgrade on OEM.
eibach pro kit (dampers/springs) eibach antirolls - around 750
koni spr.t kit (dampers/springs) eibach antirolls - around 500 (if im not mistaken this is a new entry level kit)
http://www.vwspeed.co.uk/volkswagen/vw-parts/Golf_2_STR_T_Kit-3024-477.htmlkw sports kit (dampers/springs) KW antirolls - around 630