I had the very same debate when I bought mine. I didn’t want to stretch my budget (man maths makes it too easy to drift into higher costs) so I thought hard about the things I’d benefit from every day, and the things I’d regret not having a year down the line.
Ultimately I decided UK roads and my driving ability mean I wouldn’t benefit from the extra few percent of performance as much as I would CarPlay, the improved headlights, adaptive cruise control, etc. I’m also a bit of a magpie for shiny shiny, so the newer exterior styling, the updated stereo and interior appearance, and digital dash are things I’d long for when I inevitably see them later on.
18-months and a remap later and I have no regrets.