It did sound like a more technophobic James may lol.
He obviously wasn't a golf user as much of the things he failed to understand were mk7 technology and terminology. He didn't delve into any of the mk8 clever bits really.
One thing he did say is that the car is just meh and totally tame until you hammer it. Now I think that about my gti. It's just pootling along doing nothing special, behaving like a one litre golf match (except the fuel economy) but if you press the button... Its a different animal.
Is that a bad thing? Should anything with any getup and go remind you constantly that it's noisy, hard and a raging beast even with the handbrake on? I don't think it's a bad thing to have a usable car that's also fast.
Is the R too fast for road use? Probably. I think my gti even has too much effortless performance vs what you can do on the road.