Hi
i bought my first golf last week, i ma experiencing the same problems in terms of my first gear and sometimes 2nd. pain in the arse at traffic lights occassionally.
not too sure if my gear stick is wobbly? will check tho.
im going to spray my gear linkages on friday when i get a day off with white grease.
i will be following your progress to see if you can rectify your problem. i will keep you updated on any feedback i have
thanks