just give the head to machene shop, they will know what needs doing
you don't ask them to take X off you give them your phone number and leave it with them
they often give it a very light skim to start with and if its warped it shows up as untouched metal so they then measure the differance and skim it that much.
you'll get a phone call saying it's cluked or done simples
if it is really bent and clearances become and issue there are 3 options
1) get a new head
2) recesses the valves a bit
3) add another headgasket
( if heads are £££ and youve had to take shedloads off )