DBP ouch! Lapiz hard enough to keep on top of. I would go for Oryx on a GTI personally, would have it on the R but had to have Lapiz as am a blue boy and would regret not.
That's quite a spec you have there, interested that you should not go for another R or maybe wait?
I can't tell you how much I love this car but agree the performance will undoubtedly get me in trouble sometime. The RH Booth's pedal box has proved the cherry on the cake.