Thanks for all your kind words and sympathy, very much appreciated.
Unfortunately it is dented, actually it's a bit worse that it first looked! I've now also noticed a bit more paint missing off the lower part of the door, about 3 stone chip sized bits gone.
There's are some total careless idiots out there. The woman was clueless. What made it worse was the fact there were about 50 other empty parking spaces, but no, they have to drive to the farthest part of the car park and put it right next to mine. To compound the issue, after claiming she hadn't caused any damage, after I drew her attention to the chip and dent, she started scratching at the chip with her bl00dy long nails! At that point I gave her a steely stare and said, "Do NOT touch the car". She shrank backwards rather quickly and she and the driver guy looked at me like I was some kind of nutter.
I know good PDR / Smart repairers can work wonders so I'll be seeking one out. If anyone knows of a good place in Canterbury/East Kent area please let me know. Never needed to use one before and always prefer to use people with a good reputation and preferably personally recommended.
After calming down a bit, I decided that only car therapy would get me over my over dent despair so I got out there in the wild wind and cleaned it! It sort of helped a bit but every time I look at it, the dent seems worse, especially now it's not masked by dirt. Of course when the light catches it it looks much worse due to the distorted reflections. Ah well,m I'll get onto some PDR places and get it sorted as soon as I can.
Anyway I gave it a good clean but it was sadly short-lived!
Then I had to go our for a bit and it started raining, so it now looks like this again!.