hmmm... i have had that happen to me many a times. when pushin the hu in and it fails, usually leads to something being disconnected. but as you said all the connections are fine it can't be that
i'd deffo have another check of your fuse box, can be some sly ones about that can go untouched. also recheck all your connections. the red wire - i take it you have wired the same as the live (yellow)?
another thing is check that your earth is actually goin to ground..use a multimeter (dvm) to do this..
sorry if this doesn't work then you haven't checked your connections properly..there is so little to go wrong, its usually very straight forward. sorry but i cant help anymore then this