The other thing to mention is that the vehicle is designed to work like this.... and servicing is literally an oil change and general visual inspection.
Modern fully synthetic oils aren't like some 1980's product, they are stable and good for a very much longer time - hence VW saying you don't need to replace that often.
The rest of the "service" you used to do in the 20th century was also as a result of poorly designed parts and what we now see as inferior chemical technology.
Time has moved on, save your hand wringing for some classic car built by communists in Birmingham (assuming they weren't on strike that week) that sits in a puddle of oil in your garage and refuses to start without you spraying into the carb with WD40.
Its not mechanical insensitivity, its just modern cars vs old ones.