I've tried the linseed oil rout..it's not bad and lasts ok ish..but it does leave some streaky lines when it rains.
A guy in a carwash place used some silicon spray on mine a few days ago and again not a bad result for a quick effort.
I tried a hot air gun a while ago too and not even on the hotest setting would it make any real difference so i took one of those little DIY butane canister blow torches to it (with extreme caution) as an experiment and it did blacken up the really bad areas quite well, my front and rear bumbers were almost grey in places.
I managed to sweep the torch flame across the bad areas and only on the bumpers as it's a bit hit and miss with the obvious dangers in mind! Be careful folks if you have a go!
Probably the only way to do a good lasting job is to get the black trim areas sprayed.