VW is definitely on a mission to phase out manual boxes on the nippier engines, and also seem to want you to decide you need one by fitting chocolate clutches in the manuals.
The ridiculously high geared 1.0TSI units that VW are saving the planet with are also having chocolate clutches fitted that burn on even a slight hill start, because you have to rev the nuts off them to pull away.
Give it 5 years and VAG might have phased out manuals altogether.
Never wanted a DSG, but now find myself in one as a daily driver in my Polo GTI+. The wife has the manual R 95% of the time, and VW UK decided not to bring the manual box for the Polo to the UK, despite it being available in many other European countries.
So I find myself in a DSG because the car is excellent for the money. I don't dislike DSG as much as I thought.
I'd say that 80% of the time, when not wanting to press on fully, the car can react the way you want it to ' moderate amounts of throttle can reliably translate in what gear you want the car to be in when in auto mode. In traffic it is handy too...and yes, you do get lazy.
Full manual mode just isn't intuitive for me to use the stick. Pushing up to go up a gear and pulling back to go down sounds logical, but it just feels wrong to not be doing the opposite. The paddles are pretty pointless in non-manual mode because your throttle response overrides your desire to be in a certain gear - and therein lies my main annoyance with DSG.
Why can't you have an effective bout of manual selection from within auto mode?
I don't want to have to slot over into full manual mode for one drop to 3rd from 6th to hammer it at 45. That takes a lot more forward planning than seeing an opportunity to get from 45 to 70 and just pressing the downshift 3 times and burying the throttle. Bury the throttle in auto mode (regardless of your paddle input) and it will drop to the lowest possible gear - even if that is at 45mph to go 6th to 2nd, for all of 500 revs before the red line, where there's no torque left anyway, before picking 3rd.
Wish VW has designed it so manual paddle input is respected in auto mode (within self protection limits, changing up at red line) independent of throttle input.
I'm sure someone will say "but if you're putting your foot down at 45, you can just give it 3/4 throttle to avoid dropping to 2nd". Yes you can, but it's pointless if you want full throttle 3rd acceleration.
VW could have quite easily treated paddle operation as auto mode override and chose not to. The car would've been so much better as an auto with that in place.
Do facelift Golf's with DSG have the ACC fire up the car in stop-start mode when the car in front moves off? That's highly annoying on the Polo when it's just cars bunching up a foot or so in static traffic.