Right bit of a update, Got new CCM and fitted it, still didnt work spoke to ARD over on ukmiv's and he sussed it out, i fitted the immob 2 clocks and my car is immob 3
so got ARD to recode my immob 3 clocks to work with the immobilser, This guy is a legend he put auto windows on and miles to empty on the clocks he knows the MK4's electrical systems so well so big cheers ARD
and big cheers to rhyso and his vagcom for coding it all in so i can now disable my alarm open my windows start the car and adjust my mirrors all with one key
also fitted the tip today bit dissappointed that it has a extra hole thats not needed (so much for engine specific) so looks a bit pants with a bolt in it, i did put a shiny cap bolt in it to make it look a bit better, but the tip hasnt solved the running prob