Unfortunately not much info at all, either from VW or the OEM. Would be nice to know the recommended service intervals in terms of strip down, inspection of the clutch plates etc. as well as the the recommended 3 year oil change. It would be nice to know the estimated longevity in terms of mileage but suppose this would vary massively based on driving style (commuting vs track or enthusiastic B road driving) and potentially the driver selection setting (Sport - Normal). I would hope that the XDS+ would start to take over as the clutch plates wear, would be ideal if this is able to be detected and flag up a fault code.
The oil change procedure for the VAQ is in ELSA, the guy at the service desk at the dealership pulled it up and went through it, but wouldnt provide any info on part numbers or oil, it shows use of plenty of VAG special tools, but could easily be done at home by the looks of it. ELSA just states "gear oil".
I've now had another wee look on the internet and managed to find an online ETKA that works, but had to search in Brasil to find the mk7 GTI (CHHA engine code). In the Front axle-steering section you find "front axle differential lock for 6 speed manual gearbox MQ350 PNP" and "front axle differential lock for 6-speed dual clutch gearbox DQ250 petrol eng.+ CHHA".
For both it states: G06 017 5A2 High-Performance Oil for Haldex Coupling (850ml).
The sealing plugs (both fill and drain) with washer gaskets are (M18x1.5) P/N: WHT007168 Sealing Plug.
Part number for the 6 speed manual would appear to be 02Q 409 055 and for the DSG 0D9 409 055. This also tallies with other searches of the P/N which brings up references to the Cupra and several units for sale on fleabay etc. Doesn't show any of the internals or part numbers so I'm guessing for now if it failed/wore out or any internals needed replacing then VW would just go the route of replacing the whole unit.
For reference, P/N's for: Control Unit for Differential lock (0CQ 907 554E) and hydraulic pump (0CQ 525 549).