B4 I went out on the piss I discovered some interesting stuff.
A: The relay Hella mention in the instructions is for SWEDISH/CANADIEN cars only as they require lights "on" on start-up.
B: The jumper I have instead of the relay keeps dipped beam on whilst main beam is on... cos its illegal to have no dipped whilst main beam is on and an MOT failure.
C: I didnt realise left and right beam had a fuse each ... I thought one fuse controlled main beam ... both of em.
So, I'll check the fuse tomorrow and replace it ... hopefully it'll be problem solved.
D: The little blue light on the dash ... maybe its just coincidence and the bulb has gone? ... dunno yet