Are you bothered about looks?
If not then get some 16" VAG OEM wheels. I personally run A3 8P wheels (Speedline, 16", 6.5j) with Nokian WR A4 205 55 16 tyres that I bought for my mk7 estate, now on my GTD. Well 2 are still old Michelin Alpin A4 but will be changing them soon to have 4 Nokians.
In any case I couldn't recommend Nokian winter tyres enough, if you want to keep 225 width they also come in 225 45 17 and 225 40 18.