I only have experience of one aftermarket clutch setup for the 02m, that is the Sach racing 4 puck clutch recommended to me by Bill at badger5, at first glance it appears very aggressive - as it's un-sprung and 4 puck design, but the beauty is; it's compatible with the standard LUK pressure plate and dual mass flywheel, making for a more compliant setup for daily use.
I've been advised this is the setup most people run on their 1.8t at 500-600bhp, so in the region of 400 ft-lb and is what I have in my 1.8t 4motion at the minute.